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Talk / discussMay 2025

The best days to have a hard conversation in May 2025.

Computed in America/New York (Eastern Time); every interval prints its UTC offset. A different timezone shifts the day boundaries — the sky doesn’t change, but the local days it lands in can.

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You’ve got the conversation on the calendar. Here is May 2025, scored for talking: every hour rated on the Moon void-of-course, Mercury retrograde, the Moon’s phase, and its next applying aspect for this decision — then averaged per day. Fifty is a flat sky; every point above it is computed help, every point below is drag.

The month’s best stretch opens Tue, May 20, 9:00 AM EDT and holds until Wed, May 21, 11:00 PM EDT, scoring 65.

Amber rows below are the days that stretch touches. Scores compare moments; they do not promise results.

DateDayScoreThe computed sky
May 1Thu33square Mercury 9:37 AMwaxingvoid Wed 11:48 PM – Thu 3:22 AM
May 2Fri42square Mercury 9:37 AMwaxing
May 3Sat53trine Mercury 11:13 PMwaxingvoid Sat 4:02 AM – Sat 7:29 AM
May 4Sun61trine Mercury 11:13 PMwaxing
May 5Mon40waxingvoid Mon 9:03 AM – Mon 3:39 PM
May 6Tue47waxing
May 7Wed47waxing
May 8Thu44waxingvoid Thu 12:11 AM – Thu 3:06 AM
May 9Fri47waxing
May 10Sat32opposition Mercury 5:15 PMwaxingvoid Sat 2:17 AM – Sat 3:58 PM
May 11Sun47waxing
May 12Mon51waningwaxing
May 13Tue53waningvoid Tue 2:36 AM – Tue 4:34 AM
May 14Wed55waning
May 15Thu59trine Mercury 1:29 PMwaningvoid Thu 2:28 PM – Thu 3:57 PM
May 16Fri63trine Mercury 1:29 PMwaning
May 17Sat55waning
May 18Sun43square Mercury 7:59 AMwaningvoid Sun 12:26 AM – Sun 1:29 AM
May 19Mon51square Mercury 7:59 AMwaning
May 20Tue60sextile Mercury 10:20 PMwaningvoid Tue 7:58 AM – Tue 8:28 AM
May 21Wed65sextile Mercury 10:20 PMwaning
May 22Thu55waning
May 23Fri55waning
May 24Sat48waningvoid Sat 7:43 AM – Sat 1:38 PM
May 25Sun55waning
May 26Mon52conjunction Mercury 4:05 PMwaningvoid Mon 9:51 AM – Mon 1:21 PM
May 27Tue47waxing
May 28Wed43waxingvoid Wed 9:00 AM – Wed 1:32 PM
May 29Thu47waxing
May 30Fri46sextile Mercury 2:38 PMwaxingvoid Fri 12:50 PM – Fri 4:16 PM
May 31Sat53sextile Mercury 2:38 PMwaxing

How to read this

Void-of-course— after the Moon’s last exact aspect in a sign, before it enters the next. The classical read: finish things; don’t start them. Exact times are in the void calendar for May 2025. Mercury retrograde — the traditional caution for messages, deals, and signatures; station times to the second are in the retrograde dates. Waxing / waning — growing favors starts, thinning favors finishing. The applying aspect— the Moon’s next exact contact with this decision’s planet, easy angles helping, hard angles dragging. The full rulebook — which conventions Orrery follows and which it refuses — is in Method.

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