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Talk / discussOctober 2023

The best days to have a hard conversation in October 2023.

Computed in America/New York (Eastern Time); every interval prints its UTC offset. A different timezone shifts the day boundaries — the sky doesn’t change, but the local days it lands in can.

This month has passed. The current month is have a hard conversation in September 2026.

You’ve got the conversation on the calendar. Here is October 2023, scored for talking: every hour rated on the Moon void-of-course, Mercury retrograde, the Moon’s phase, and its next applying aspect for this decision — then averaged per day. Fifty is a flat sky; every point above it is computed help, every point below is drag.

The month’s best stretch opens Sun, Oct 1, 12:00 AM EDT and holds until Mon, Oct 2, 7:00 PM EDT, scoring 69.

Amber rows below are the days that stretch touches. Scores compare moments; they do not promise results.

DateDayScoreThe computed sky
Oct 1Sun69trine Mercury 6:41 PMwaning
Oct 2Mon64trine Mercury 6:41 PMwaningvoid Mon 9:19 PM – Tue 1:03 AM
Oct 3Tue53waningvoid Mon 9:19 PM – Tue 1:03 AM
Oct 4Wed55waning
Oct 5Thu48square Mercury 10:32 AMwaningvoid Thu 2:34 AM – Thu 8:31 AM
Oct 6Fri55waning
Oct 7Sat52sextile Mercury 7:47 AMwaningvoid Sat 3:11 PM – Sat 7:24 PM
Oct 8Sun58sextile Mercury 7:47 AMwaning
Oct 9Mon55waning
Oct 10Tue52waningvoid Tue 5:36 AM – Tue 8:01 AM
Oct 11Wed55waning
Oct 12Thu52conjunction Mercury 4:57 AMwaningvoid Thu 4:10 PM – Thu 8:22 PM
Oct 13Fri67conjunction Mercury 4:57 AMwaning
Oct 14Sat54conjunction Mercury 4:57 AMwaningwaxing
Oct 15Sun43waxingvoid Sun 3:01 AM – Sun 7:04 AM
Oct 16Mon47waxing
Oct 17Tue46sextile Mercury 2:24 PMwaxingvoid Tue 11:43 AM – Tue 3:36 PM
Oct 18Wed57sextile Mercury 2:24 PMwaxing
Oct 19Thu46sextile Mercury 2:24 PMsquare Mercury 2:00 AMwaxingvoid Thu 3:02 PM – Thu 9:54 PM
Oct 20Fri35square Mercury 2:00 AMwaxing
Oct 21Sat35square Mercury 2:00 AMwaxing
Oct 22Sun46square Mercury 2:00 AMwaxing
Oct 23Mon38waxingvoid Mon 3:04 PM – Tue 4:32 AM
Oct 24Tue45trine Mercury 10:56 AMwaxingvoid Mon 3:04 PM – Tue 4:32 AM
Oct 25Wed47waxing
Oct 26Thu43waxingvoid Thu 2:39 AM – Thu 6:01 AM
Oct 27Fri47waxing
Oct 28Sat35opposition Mercury 3:00 AMwaningwaxingvoid Sat 4:19 AM – Sat 7:44 AM
Oct 29Sun52opposition Mercury 3:00 AMwaning
Oct 30Mon51waningvoid Mon 7:35 AM – Mon 11:07 AM
Oct 31Tue55waning

How to read this

Void-of-course— after the Moon’s last exact aspect in a sign, before it enters the next. The classical read: finish things; don’t start them. Exact times are in the void calendar for October 2023. Mercury retrograde — the traditional caution for messages, deals, and signatures; station times to the second are in the retrograde dates. Waxing / waning — growing favors starts, thinning favors finishing. The applying aspect— the Moon’s next exact contact with this decision’s planet, easy angles helping, hard angles dragging. The full rulebook — which conventions Orrery follows and which it refuses — is in Method.

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